Ever felt like the questions rattling around in your soul are too off-limits to say out loud? You’re not alone—and you’re definitely not crazy.
In Asking for a Friend: What We All Think but Think We Shouldn’t, Bill Mesaeh invites you into an honest conversation most of us are too afraid to have. Drawing from personal struggle and a raw encounter with the book of Ecclesiastes, Mesaeh wrestles with the doubts, disillusionment, and deep longings we all carry—but rarely voice.
This isn’t a book of easy answers. It’s a companion for when faith feels heavy and life doesn’t add up. Each chapter leans into a hard question Solomon once asked and many of us still do—from meaning and mortality to injustice and joy. Mesaeh doesn’t sanitize the struggle. He names it, walks through it, and—somehow—finds hope on the other side.
If you’ve ever sat in church or lay awake at night wondering, “Is it just me?”—this book is for you.
Coming July 23, 2025. Preorder now and step into the conversation you didn’t know you needed.
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